You see that girl in class everyday and always want to ask her out, but you can never seem to get the nerve up to ask her. This article will give you great tips on doing that.

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[edit] Steps

STEPS FOR THE GIRL YOU DON'T KNOW

Every girl is different so you might want to simply start off with a smile. Make eye contact for a couple days, make her notice you, but don't make yourself look silly doing so.
After she seems to notice you, just say hey or a small hi will do. You don't want to go right up to her and start a conversation or you might scare her away; some girls get freaked, especially if they're shy, if a random guy comes up and starts a conversation.
Make a point to be everywhere she is, but not in a stalker kind of way. You want every chance to be near her without actually being "near" her. You want her to know you're there, but you're not "knowing" she is there. This will make her curious of you, then you can start a conversation with her.
If you think the time is right, go ahead and just be friendly and talk to her. Ask her what she likes doing.
For example, she likes going for coffee, then you can ask her if she wants to go get coffee. Talk, get to know each other.

STEPS FOR THE GIRL YOU DO KNOW

Because you are already familiar with each other, this might be easier. You could just go up and start a conversation, and ask them if they'd like to go out sometime.
You should have a good idea of what she likes, so you can give her a small surprise. For example, she likes coffee, so you take her out to get coffee. But you also know that she likes starry nights, so you could get the coffee to go and take her somewhere where the stars shine.

[edit] Tips

Since she is your classmate, she may need help with some homework, or work. This can be an excellent conversation starter.
Be sure to keep it friendly first, that way if she turns out not to want a relationship that way, you don't end up getting hurt.
Make sure to figure out what she likes to do, and probably be sure to she's not to absorbed in herself to talk about you. After all you want a relationship, not worship.

[edit] Warnings

Don't try to help her if you don't know what you're doing, you'll just make yourself look silly.
All girls are different so make sure that you don't move too fast by taking her anywhere romantic. Keep it casual for a few. At least until it's clear she "feels" something for you. And then, make sure she feels that way by having a "serious talk". You don't want to get hurt.