How to Ask a Guy out Even Though You're Scared to Death

Want more than anything else in the world to ask the cutest guy in the world out but you melt when your near him? We all know that it's never easy to do something like that, no matter how much experience you've had. The good news is, we're here to help.

[edit] Steps

  1. Pick a guy that isn't taken. This is probably the most important part!
  2. Get to know that guy and see if you like him or not.
  3. If you do but are barely able to talk to him ( let alone ask him out),make yourself known in his presence.
  4. Practice talking to him in the mirror. This may seem old fashion and boring at first, but if you really like him, it will pay off.
  5. Get up your guts and go say hi. Strike a conversation (Maybe you have similar interests?)
  6. See how it goes when he is around you. If he likes you, than that is absolutely great. If he doesn't, well, sorry about you, but either way, you should still ask him out.
  7. Ask him out. This is the hardest part because it takes bravery to go up to a guy who's been to your liking such a long time. And if you really really can't ask him out try telling him that you like him first because then there might be more chance that when you do ask him out that he'll say yes since he's had time to get used to the fact you like him. Some guys freak out at first thats why you sometimes get rejected !


[edit] Tips

  • If you're playing the hinting game, be obvious! Guys don't realize you're hinting and flirting unless it's pretty obvious!
  • try to find out if he likes you first before you ask him out. Otherwise you may get hurt. But, don't be pushy when you ask, that could make him not like you.
  • Flirt. Guys love it when you flirt plus it drops a hint in a subtle way.
  • Make him laugh. They won't date you if your boring...


[edit] Warnings

  • If he says no, you are probably too good for him anyways. He doesn't know who he is messing with.
  • If he says no, don't hold a grudge. that could make it so he never likes you.
  • Don't ask him in front of friends since that'll put pressure on him and he's most likely to say no infront of his friends!
  • If he says maybe, don't get your hopes up too high because maybe he doesn't have the heart to say no or that he needs time to think about it properly.
  • Start out with small things like slow dancing at school dances or partnering up for a school project.


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