You're head over heels in love with a Venus, the one girl you'll be happy with forever... only two problems remain: She's older than you, and you're younger than her. This article will allow you to win the girl of your dreams.

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[edit] Steps

Be mature. When she's passing you in the hallway, don't keep talking to your best friend about Pokemon, talk about something mature such as a team you might be in, a book you might have recently read, something you know someone her age would be interested in.
Be conscious about your appearance. If you're playing with your GameBoy and smell like you haven't taken a shower in 2 days, you had better hope that she doesn't notice you. Make sure to wear cologne (but not too much), comb your hair and focus on making yourself as good-looking as possible. If you don't know what cologne to get, have a girl that's a friend help you. Try to look as tall as you possibly can. Sorry to short guys, but taller guys usually have an easier time with a girl's attention. Put your chest out(it shows confidence), and try to put yourself in a position where you look like the center of everything.
Join an activity she is in and/or might be interested in. If she is in a debate team, joining the team and looking smart will get her to respect you.
Don't be ashamed to ask her out. This is a sure way to prove you're more mature than you look and that's a good thing.
Make friends with her friends One tip is to make friends with her friends. That way, you don't look like a complete outsider and it makes you look (and feel) more connected with the group.

[edit] Tips

Attracting an older girl requires the exact same skills as getting a girl your age; you just have to be better at them.
Be aware she might like you but she might have a problem dating a younger guy because her classmates and friends might make fun of her.
When you talk to her, don't try to sound smarter than you would normally be at your age, it will make you look an idiot.
There's usually a friend of hers that everybody can read like a book. Ask her friend questions that can help you.
Confections can be hard. You can talk to her friend that can help and you trust.

[edit] Warnings

Don't ever do anything immature in front of her, such as playing some video game (unless she's into video games), laughing with your buds about some dumb joke, or picking your nose. Don't, however, pretend to be someone you're not, or pretend to like things that you don't. They come back to bite you.
If you do join a team she's interested in, you may want to acquire the skills to do well on that team. If you fumble at each question/debate, you won't gain her respect at all.
Don't tell her friend anything, because you're not the only one who can read her like a book.
Don't use sweet talk. You'll only say the wrong thing and get a slap round the face.