How to Be Your Own Best Friend
Most people seem to feel that they need a friend or a best friend to complete them. When people are alone they tend to become depressed, its like they need someone around them to get things going or they would seem like the odd person to other people and themselves, and thats not true, its the best thing in the world to be your own best friend. Instead of the search for finding someone having the same qualities like or almost like you, you have more fun when you enjoy yourself alone. Most people find that hard to beliveve and thats okay but you benefit from yourself and you come to find yourself having a great deal of self-esteem no matter where you are or what you have.
[edit] Steps
- When you start this process, start talking to yourself and thinking to yourself in your head. Laugh at your own jokes, make stories in your mind, fantasize on your dreams, make plans etc
- Be postive with yourself. For an example never say "Im not good enough", instead replace it with " Im great!" and dwell on it. Truth is all our insecurities come from ourselves not the people around us. So if you say something negative about yourself and keep that impression, how could you get things done? When your in a bad attitude about yourself you are turning to your own enemy. Never say anything against yourself that brings you down.
- Remember that all our insecurities stop us from us becoming even more of what we can be. You if you think, feel or speak ill of yourself you can never become more.
- When you become your own best friend do to yourself what you always wanted in a best friend.
- Start going towards the things you want to acheive, whether its being a great artist or becoming a great dancer etc. Anything you want to do focus on that
[edit] Tips
- When you start to be your own best friend don't be mean, also be honest to people.
- When you become your own best fiend don't gossip to yourself of anyone, mind your own bussiness, remember make your plans for the day and follow them.
- If you need help on how to ignore someting. Check out how to ignore something or someone on wikihow.
- Be your own boss and get things done.
