How to Get Along with a Spouse
You may come upon all sorts of people and in-laws while being married, here are a few tips...
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- Talking openly about feelings is necessary in order to build a good marriage.
- If your spouse is hurting from fear or emotional pain that you might have inflicted, then you are responsible to make it up to him/her, even if the fears do not seem to be something you fully understand, since your presence in their life precipitated the fear/s.
- If you got married for looks, social status, money, security, or sexual desire ONLY then take a look at why you care about the relationship continuing...If you still only care about the superficials, then emotionally connecting with your spouse may not be realistic...counseling may or may not be able to help.
[edit] Tips
- Violence is not okay, EVER, and should be reported to the police.
- To avoid sexual displeasure, discuss your desires before 'springing them' on your spouse.
- Always know that you must try to forgive each other for mistakes.
- Remember, there are two of you in the relationship, each as important as the other.
[edit] Warnings
- Don't put up with sexual, mental or physical abuse,
- You never deserve to be hit for ANY reason.
