How to Get Away from a Loverboy (Pimp)
A loverboy (aka pimp) is a boy who seduces a girl with the plan of luring her into employment as a prostitute. Initially the loveryboy is nice to her, giving a lot of attention and expensive gifts. After a while, when when they've been dating, he tries to convince her to sleep with other men for money. He uses violence to make a girl completely subservient to his wishes. In this guide, you can learn how to stay away from him.
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- Take a distance from him and a little time.If you take a break from him, you can look on your situation much better. Ask for help to your parents,teachers, help care workers, etc.
- Have a purpose for what do you want to do with your life. Find things to do that you like. Discover your talents. Create some goals for yourself.
- Look at your yourself and takeover your own life. Look at the mistakes you made and why, if you ever end up in this situation you will be able to recognize them better.
- Be positive about yourself.Compliments are always fine, but if we only feel better when someone else gives us a compliment, we become vulnerable. Your boyfriend can then do whatever he wants to do with you. You are independent from him and he has got you in his power.It's important that you focus on what you like about yourself and concentrate on this. Remember that everyone is unique and has something special.
- Reward yourself with something. Men, especially loverboys, abuse this a lot. They give presents, but they always want something in return. Buy something what you like.
- Love your body.How well do you know your own body? What do you want to do and what not? What are the impacts from prostitution? It's your body, and only yours. If you are being abused, sometimes you don't care anymore. However, your body is still special, and you can respect and value your body if you process everything what happened to you.
