Okay, so there is that one special guy that you like, right? He's good looking, smart, funny and, well... you want him. It's normally never easy to get yourself the guy you like so read this article and you'll find yourself working brilliantly around those annoying and frustrating dilemmas and obstacles!

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[edit] Steps

Make sure that the guy you like is single. If he is in a relationship or dating somebody, don't be afraid to still talk to him. Flirt with him subtly; if you do it properly then he will subconsciously flirt with you back.
Flirting is such an obvious factor, but it's an important one. Hold eye contact with him, smile, touch his arm while laughing, be assertive. Don't be afraid to make the first move.
Once you've started talking to him, ask questions. It shows you're interested and you want to get to know him. Don't be too pushy, but slip in the occasional 'what is your opinion on that?' 'Do you like this/that?' It makes a difference.
Once you've started talking, try calling him - but not too often. It will show you're confident and keen.
Once you're calling, flirt more, which will turn into a good, flirty friendship.
Now, if he hasn't asked you on a date; you will have to, if you really want him.
When you're on the date, be yourself and don't behave too couple-like yet.
Lean in for a kiss somewhere in the second half of the date, but only if it's right.
If all goes well, go on another date. If the date is awkward and you decide you don't like him, tell him you should just remain as friends. If you still like him, but you're convinced he doesn't like you back then play it down - don't communicate as much for about a week and then start flirting again.

[edit] Tips

Flirt, but not too much. You don't want to seem over the top. Overwhelming them is not the way to go.
Don't be afraid to make the first move. Some guys like that assertiveness in girls.
If you really want him, but you're too nervous or uncomfortable to talk to him, then you have to put yourself out of your comfort zone and talk to him. It may be uncomfortable for you, but as long as you get him, that's all that matters.
Don't tell him you like him until you're semi-close. This will stop the connection from feeling like friendship rather than romance. If he sees you only as a friend, the relationship won't progress.
Don't give up, but don't seem desperate or forceful.
Smile! Your smile is gorgeous.

[edit] Warnings

If you're flirting with a guy who is in a proper relationship, be careful! But have fun; if you really want him then go for it.
Don't come across as desperate. It's a major turn-off.
Don't come across as pushy or aggressive. You can't force somebody to like you, so don't ask too many questions too soon and just be girly and flirty.
Don't be immature when flirting. Nobody wants to date a younger sister. Be mature.