The perfect way to get a girl to fall in love with you is not complicated. Usually it is through common sense, advice and solid rules. This is not about those rules and advice. This is about how through basic concepts that once applied can be analized and used to strengthen a girl's feeling of love for you. It is love, so rigid advice may not work. Allow this to be more of a fluid guideline.

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[edit] Steps

Be yourself. This is about getting someone to fall in love with you, not with someone else!!!
Open your eyes. Women are everywhere!If you want a girl out there to fall in love with you, chances are a girl wants someone out there to fall in love with her. Find a girl anywhere and you are set. It doesn't matter if she is in a bar or if she walks next to you on your way to the bathroom. If you don't know where girls are, try going 1 mile in any direction and look around. Finding a girl is the hardest part, once you find a girl, go to step 3.
Don't set expectations, become like a romantic Buddha, become desireless. Expect nothing from the girl. This is not to say don't want the girl, it is just don't want to want the girl. If you haven't ever talked to her before, don't expect to walk away with her number. If you are friends and want more, don't expect her to go along. Be without want and it will cut out a lot of problems later.
Kill her a mammoth. People don't seem to systematically decide whom they fall in love with (well most don't). The process is kind of "messed up". It often comes with time, and time is often needed. So in the transition of falling in love, you need to show the girl that you are worth being around. This is the fun part! Show her you are nice, talented, or smart. Hell, show her you can be cynical and rude about everything. Show her you can do calculus or jump rope or sing. No matter how stupid it may seem, show her you are lovable and she will begin to love you on her own. Remember - this is where you need to be yourself! Have fun with her. There are no specifics to this step. Just show her who you are and put yourself out there.
Give her space. This step can be looked at in many ways and can get distorted easily. The point is to let her give herself what she needs in order to fall in love with you. Space is somehow what is most common or most traditional for some reason. The point is to give the girl the control of what happens next. This step isn't about ignoring her so SHE has to call you, or avoiding long conversations with her to torment her into loving you. Just allow her to live her life outside you. Allow her to walk away from the bar at any point. Allow her to see a movie without you. Allow her to be without you and she will then decide to love you on her own terms.
Honest and open. Tell her truthful things about what you think and feel. Easy enough? if you love the girl, tell her. If you think she is pretty, tell her. If you think she has too many keys on her key chain, but it really doesn't matter and is a cute little quirk she has, tell her. Let her know what is going on with you. But be careful not to be a kissup. If she is a pretty girl and you can tell guys are always kissing, try to be different from them.
Be ready to sacrifice. There is always something that gets in the way with love. People miss love all the time because of life. A job opportunity comes up, another person comes into the picture, someone isn't ready. Realize that a sacrifice will have to be made. It may be something huge or maybe something trivial. Look for it, it will be around the corner...
Smile! Be funny! Girls love a sense of humor, but don't go around pranking people and making wise cracks; girls don't like that.

[edit] Tips

Watch for hints that she is leaving you. They could mean that she likes you. Like check here msn or facebook status regularly to look for hints that she leaves you, but dont just go and tell her you seen it, work it into a conversation or something and find out if it was intended for you!
Don't over use pick up lines, use them as humor!
Not setting expectations is key!
Be confident. (Confidence is not the absence of self doubt, it is controlling self doubt.)
Everybody is good at something, make sure you show the girl your something.
You can't make a girl love you, so don't force her.
Be polite for heaven's sake!
Girls want guys as much as guys want girls. They just want them 15 minutes later. So hold out for 20 minutes and she will chase you for 5.
Be well-groomed and clean. No girl likes a messy, smelly boy.
Girls LOVE flowers, but find the right kind first.
Find out what the girl likes in a guy or even just likes, such as: favorite color, movie, etc.
Show her you're not going to play her.
Show her the true respect.
If you're in for some like most guys just get off this page.
Let her know when something is upsetting you, it will help but don't get too deep into it.
If you love her TELL her.
Drop cute little hints. Don't be too flirty, but don't be shy. Don't be embarrassed when she catches you staring at her. Don't turn away quickly. This will make her suspicious. I'm a girl, and I know she probably likes you back, but sometimes we don't show it because we still don't know how YOU feel.
Be chivalrous. Open doors, pull out chairs; just be a gentleman. You'd be surprised just how much women care about this and how important it is to your success.

[edit] Warnings

Love hurts A LOT. Lowering expectations should help you avoid some pain, but if she doesn't feel that "spark" on the first, second, third date, be prepared for a rejection. Take a week to grieve and move on!
There are repercussions to your actions!
If you are constantly trying to get girls to love you, you'll make a name for yourself and it'll spread, and spread..etc...etc...etc. If one girls rejects you, keep trying - maybe you're coming on too strong or they just weren't interested. Not everybody is "compatible" and your interest might not be returned. If you get rejected many times, just remember that happy, stable people will always find a relationship. Don't get beaten down by failure or rejection.
If they say "No" it could mean one of two things. She is not interested or she is really interested. Sometimes girls say they are not interested because they are either scared or they want you to try harder.
Don't take rejections too personally. Out of a group of 100 women, probably only about 15 of them are going to be interesting, stable, and open to relationships. Odds are you're going to run into one of the other 85. Accept that there are girls who are either just plain cold or emotionally unavailable.
This is probably one of the hardest steps: Under the assumption that the two of you break up, try to be her friend. The first thing that is going to happen is that you are going to blame her for everything. You must move past that and try to be friends. It will benefit the both of you later.