How to Get a Girl to Open up to You when You're a Guy
Do you ever need a girl to open up when you are a guy? Here are steps.
[edit] Steps
- Ask her. A lot of girls think that it shows you care when you ask about them.
- Don't pressure her. If you do, Then she will not tell you anything.
- Tell her more about you. The more they know about you the more they will trust you and thus she will tell you more about herself.
- Be patient, you have to move slowly so that you don't come on too strong.
- Don't be a jerk, no one likes it when you act mean, especially girls. They find it unattractive, and will not like it especially if you bully or tease others.
- Be nice to her and tell her you just want her to open up a tad bit more. Honesty is very important in a relationship establishing this is a big bonus.
[edit] Tips
- Do not keep asking.
- Tell her you care about establishing a good relationship.
- Don't ask really personal questions. i.e. "Are you a virgin?"
- Take it slow. Going too fast will never help you.
- Be honest.
[edit] Warnings
- Do not go through her personal belongings.
- NEVER bring up PMS (Actually from a female perspective... PMS stops being a taboo after middle school... Just be nice about it... a kind of mixture of joke and sympathy could make her see you understand what she was/is going through)
- Never say anything about her. Ever.
