Getting a guy to notice you, let alone like you, isn't easy -- especially if you are the nerdy kid in school with glasses and braces. It is a possibility, however, if you follow this guide.

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[edit] Steps

Make sure he knows you exist. If he doesn't even know you, whats the point of going out with him?
Start talking to him about random things. Find out his interests and hobbies. You will become better friends as time goes on.
Get along with his friends. If his friends don't like you, he probably won't like you either (unless his friends are jealous, but don't ask them if they are).
Read up on sports, games, magazines, or any interests that he likes because that will give you a reason to talk. Strike up a conversation with one of your friends while he's nearby. Here is a sample situation:
- You: "Can you believe the Pirates struck out 7 to 6 against the Yankees?"
- Friend: "Yeah, I know!"
- You: "Oh, [guy's name], you like the Pirates, right?"
- Guy: [his answer]
- You: "Did you watch the game last night?"
Tell one of [guy's name]'s friends that [guy's name] looked nice today (or a similar compliment). Chances are that they will tell him. Of course, don't be so pushy that it's creepy. Make sure that it doesn't seem that you're telling everyone that you think he looks nice or whatever besides him.
Smile when he walks by, but casually. Give a short smile that says "Hi, I can't talk right now, but talk to me later."
Have your girlfriends do a little spying, but make sure they don't get too involved.
Don't try to dumb yourself down for a guy. Ditzy really isn't that cute or hot. Be your honest self, there's nothing wrong with being smart.
When you think he's looking at you, turn and look at him. If he is watching you, say in a nice funny cutesy way "Hah what are you staring at?".
Go out as friends for awhile, let him see what you're like outside of school and the phone or however else you've talked to him (IM, email). (You're going to have to hang out with him sometime!)
Act normal, but if he tells you what he likes in a girl wait a week or so and pick up on that trait. If its too risky, don't do it. If a guy really likes you, he won't make you dye your hair or get a piercing. Only do this if you already have that trait, don't change yourself for him, it's not worth it.
Don't pretend to be someone else to get his interest. If you know he's a big fan of classic rock and you've never heard of The Beatles or The Rolling Stones, don't fake it. He'll eventually find out and you'll look pretty stupid.

[edit] Tips

Look great, but don't change yourself. If a guy likes you, he's probably okay with you just as you are.
Talk about other guys, but don't go overboard.
Some guys won't get it. If a guy doesn't get that you like him (more than friends), the best way to get him to realize it is hanging out in public places like a wave pool, movies, or the mall.
Don't 'play telephone' - i.e. Asking your friend to tell the guy that you like him. This shows a lack of confidence, and is usually embarrassing for everyone.
If you want to talk to a guy, approach him alone. Most guys will not feel comfortable talking to you while a group of your friends stand giggling behind you.
If you know your guy plays a sport ask him about it. For example: "Oh (name) you play hockey right? When does the season start?"
Guys like it when you share common intrests.

[edit] Warnings

Don't be a stalker. Don't follow him to classes, or be behind him every time he turns around, thats a big turn off.
Don't move too fast. Don't rush into a relationship your dream guy isn't ready to have.
Go for nice, sensitive guys, that aren't total wussies. Guys who constantly put you down aren't any good, even if they are hot. Don't date teachers pets, or guys who hide behind you.
Never go on a date without your parents knowing where you are. Even if you think you know a guy good, or if you think it's a good sneaky plan at the time, it's not. Dangerous things are becoming more common in middle school and high school now, so don't take that risk.