Did you have a huge crush on a guy? Did you think he liked you? And then he came up and said "I don't like you" and you're trying to get over it? Up-front rejection is no easy thing to overcome. You were hurt but its time to get over it.

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Realize that just because he doesn't like you doesn't mean you're unlikable. If you two were a good match, wouldn't he be smart enough to recognize it, too? If he can't see how great you two could've been together (like you did) then he's too short-sighted for you anyway.
Move on! There are other fish in the sea, and there are guys out there who will want to get to know you better and see how things unfold. Don't waste your time brooding over someone who isn't into you.
Be glad he didn't lead you on. Some guys will pretend they like a girl because they don't have the guts to tell them the truth. It could've ended much worse. You might have a little heartache now, but at least you didn't get your heart broken and stomped on.
Think about all the things you didn'tlike about him. Maybe you just started to like the fantasy of being with him. If you thought he liked you and he didn't, you obviously don't know him that well, and the person you thought you liked doesn't really exist!
Remember that there is always someone for you. The easiest way to forget your love is to love another. Yes, it can be that simple. Go, love your second crush or find one. Never harm or hurt yourself, there are guys who desire for you in this world, if not many, at least one !
Just get over him & let go of what you know you shouldnt have. Especially if he did you wrong. You know you can but you just can't let go of what you guys used to be.