How to Grab a Guys Attention
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It's a fact, so many teenagers feel as if waiting for a guy is not worth it and begin to question themselves, "Is it me?" "Am I ugly?" "But why? I'm so much prettier than her." Hope this helps!
[edit] Steps
- Smile: I know you've heard this so many times but, really it works! Guys love a girl who's happy. (There are times to smile and times to not). This shows the guy that you have confidence in yourself and are confident with others. A frown gives off negative attention and instead it shows the guy that you're not a happy person in general.
- Don't gossip!: While other girls think that spreading things around will make them "popular" Or what not, DON'T DO IT! Guys are attracted to girls who are nice, more than a girl who runs around and likes to ruin people lives.
- Be neat: Believe it or not some guys do pay attention to your hair and all those little first impressions. So it's always good to take a shower, use deodorant, and brush those pearly whites! Take care of your hair and trim it every 6 to 8 weeks. If you plan on dying your hair, don't do it all the time or it deprives your hair of the oils it needs. Last, but not least, use a little bit of vanilla, guys hate strong perfumes! The best place to put perfume would be around your neck, behind your knees, on your wrist, and behind your ears because all these places generate heat.
- Step up: One of the biggest mistakes girl make is waiting for a guy rather than getting out there and looking for them themselves. Come up to some guys and talk to them! Don't make it obvious that you like them but, talk casually. Go out there and show those guys what you're made of!
[edit] Tips
- Smile, just don't over smile.
- Smell nice all the time.
- Work out and take care of your body!
- Make sure you are acting yourself and not acting fake!
- Fix your hair and have nice, clean clothes on.
- Make eye contact, but don't stare girls!
[edit] Warnings
- You can't force anyone to like you.
- Don't laugh loudly and obnoxiously. It's a turnoff.
- Don't overdo flirting the guy will take notice and in a bad way too.
- Don't make him feel uptight when your around him.
- Never say things like "I'm so fat!" or "I look so ugly today..."
- Don't lie! - If you get caught doing so you may ruin your rep with people and the guy you're aiming for.
- If he compliments you, don't disagree. Say "thank you" and smile. If you don't, he could think you don't have confidence in yourself.










